Chapter Eleven - A Wedding Disaster

As a wedding photographer, I have seen my fair share of wedding disasters. One of the most memorable ones was many years ago in New Jersey, when I arrived at the venue and found out that the bride and groom had not secured the necessary permits for the outdoor ceremony. The venue staff was frantically trying to find a solution, but it was clear that the ceremony would have to be moved indoors. The bride was in tears, and the groom was trying his best to console her.

As we moved inside, I realized that the lighting was terrible. The room was dimly lit, and the walls were painted a dark color, making it difficult to capture good photos. I tried my best to adjust my camera settings, and set up my off camera flashes around the room, but it was a losing battle, this room was just not meant for a nice ceremony, it looked more like a storage for event chairs and tables. The ceremony began, and I started taking photos, but I knew that they would not be up to my usual standards.

After the ceremony, we moved outside for the group photos. It was an incredibly windy day, but the lighting was perfect in the most unfortunate direction, the wind was blowing from behind where I wanted my subjects, so now their hair was all in their faces. If I had turned us all around 180 degrees, I would have had a nice background of a parking lot, which is the worst background for any photos. I was rushed by the coordinators because we only had a short period of time due to the ceremony situation taking a lot longer time than expected and it was cutting into my photo time.

As the reception began, I realized that the DJ was not prepared. He did not have the right equipment, and the music was terrible. The guests were not dancing, and the atmosphere was awkward. I tried to capture candid moments, but there were none to be found. I remember a lot of the guests also kind of knew that it was a dud so some of the guests decided to just get hammered, and there were two guys that evidently had a disagreement and they began throwing blows but immediately got stopped by other groomsmen.

At the end of the night, I packed up my equipment and left, feeling disappointed. I knew that the photos would not be up to my usual standards, and I felt terrible for the bride and groom. It was a disaster of a wedding, and I knew that they would not have the memories that they had hoped for.

There are so many stories from wedding professionals about great weddings, horrible weddings, and everything in between. There isn’t much you can do during the day but try your best. Luckily, I have the greatest clients ever and they are all super cool and understanding. At the end of the night, both them and I kept saying sorry to each other as if was both of our faults. This particular couple totally understood it was a tough day and loved my photos anyways.